WHAT WOMEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT MEN...✍🏾

1. Men don't read minds. If you want him to know you and what's on your mind, tell him.

2. A man loves it when his woman brags about him.

3. A man hates it when things he shares with his woman are told to her girlfriends as juicy gossip.

4. The number one thing a man finds sexy is her heart, the man serious about love might look at a woman with a gorgeous body but he only chases after and keeps the one with a good heart.

5. Men don't think about sex all the time. It means alot to him to have a woman he can talk to deep and intelligent stuff. His need for sexual stimulation is high and scattered, but his need for mental stimulation is constant.

6. The easiest way to keep him from spending too much time with his friends at the expense of you, is to make sure being with you is more fun, more intelligently stimulating, more stress-free than being with his friends.

7. Every good man loves his woman more than his friends, but if he spends more time with his friends it's to escape the stress he gets when with her.

8. The more you nag, the more he will avoid you.

9. Men want to express their feelings, but will only do so when they feel safe. How much he lets you be there for him depends on how much he thinks you can handle his issues.

10. Don't fight his favourite past time, embrace it. If he loves football, watch matches with him or buy him a jersey. If he loves to swim, swim with him or just check him out as you chill by the pool. If he loves to dance, dance with him even if you are not a pro. The more you do things with him, the more he will value your company, the more he will in return learn to like or accommodate what you like.

11. No matter what happens in your marriage, make sure your sex-life doesn't suffer. Don't ever use sex as a weapon to attack him or punish him.

12. If he truly loves you, he will still find you sexy whether you gain or lose weight. The thing is always know how to dress and look sexy no matter your size; men can pick up a woman's confidence.

13. When you give birth, don't focus too much on being a great mother that you forget to remain a great wife.

14. Men also love to be listened to. Be his confidant. Find out how he is, how his day has been. He has feelings too. Let it not always be about you.

15. Don't jump into conclusions quickly when you hear rumors about him or think he is cheating or fooling around. Confront him gently with love, it will make him respect you more. He should never feel you are quick to leave his team, be rational.

16. Know that good men are constantly being bashed by society because of what the bad ones have done and are doing. Look at him as an individual, celebrate him

17. The more you appreciate his efforts, the more he will do for you.

18. Don't let your hurry to get married put him off. Don't rush love.

19. A man and a woman may not grow ready at the same pace. Don't force a marriage proposal out of him, if he loves you and is serious, be sure he is planning the proposal. The more comfortable you make him, the easier you make it for him; the more you rush him, the more he starts to feel used.

20. A man will always be publicly proud of the woman he admires, be admirable.

21. The number one cause for a man to feel less important and threatened in a woman's life is when he has little money or he can't adequately provide. This is one of most crucial moments when he needs his woman to affirm him that she still loves him and the two will find a way.

22. It's not that men are intimidated by women with power and success it's just that they detest the pride of some of these women with power and success. You wouldn't want to be with a proud man so full of himself just because he has lots of money and success; neither do the men want to be with such a woman.

23. Never praise another man yet belittle your man. A man will not hesitate to walk away from a woman who sees him as nothing.

24. When an issue has been resolved between you and your man, move past it. It is retrogressive to dig up resolved fights to prove how right you are and how wrong he is.

25. Patience with a man will take you far. Many women miss out on the growth with a man because they want perfect right now.

26. Submitting to a man doesn't mean you are his slave, it just means giving him the authority to build with you, to nourish you, to look out for you and be concerned about your well being.

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S€X AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT

Some men dream of success.
Some men work for success.
Some men destroy their success before it even starts.

And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is S€X.

A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind.
A man who controls his desires will always be ahead.

Success requires discipline.
Sexual indulgence destroys discipline.

If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID S€XUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO

Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline.

Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women.
Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls.

Muhammad Ali refused s€x before fights—he knew discipline was power.
But look at many men today:

Wasting hours daily on p0rn and m@sturbation.
Spending their last money just to impress women.

Crying over a girl instead of building their future.
No great man was ever a slave to lust.

2. S£X DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE

Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure.
You are losing:
Testosterone (your natural energy for success).

Motivation (your hunger to win).
Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused).
That’s why after s£x, many men feel weak and lazy.

Now imagine:
Doing this every day.
Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women.
Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure.
That’s why broke men chase s£x, and rich men chase success.

3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE

Look at your daily habits.
How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures?
How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs?

How much time do you spend watching p0rn and draining your strength?
Now imagine using that time to:
Learn a high-income skill.
Work on your business or career.

Go to the gym and improve your body.
If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you.

4. HISTORY PROVES THAT S£XUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN

Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history?
Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty.
It was s£xual weakness.
Samson lost his power because of Delilah.

King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction.

Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a s£x scandal.

Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman.

A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction.

5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES

You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day?
You think she values a man who is always available and begging?

No.
A woman respects men who have:
Purpose.
Self-control.
A bigger mission in life.

When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you.

6. P0RN, M@STURBATION & CASUAL S£X ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER

The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure.

P0rn kills your brain.
M@sturbation destroys your energy.
Casual s£x makes you indisciplined.
That’s why so many men are:

Unmotivated.
Struggling financially.
Depressed and directionless.

If you want to be great, you must cut off s£xual distractions.

7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY

You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful.
But you can’t even:
Go a week without s£x or p0rn.

Focus on work without being distracted by women.
Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see.
If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world?

8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL S£X, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY S€X

S€x is a tool.
The weak use it for pleasure.
The strong use it for power.

A successful man controls when and how he engages in s€x.
A broke man lets s€x control him.
That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure.

9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS

A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow.
But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come.

That’s why powerful men never lack women.
And that’s why weak men are always chasing.

10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER

There is nothing wrong with s£x.

But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle.
If you master self-control, you will always be ahead.

The choice is yours.

BOTTOM LINE:

If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust.

Because in the end…

Men who control their desires, control their future.
Men who chase pleasure, lose everything.

*TOO LATE TO APOLOGISE AND WHAT REALLY HAPPENED*

Where are you coming from by this time of the night?

He thundered.

Honey you won't believe what happened today. Oh God I'm so tired right now. She replied as she yawned.

I asked where you are coming from and you are vomiting rubbish.
Does that answer my question? Are you trying to pretend you don't
know there's no food in this house?

Femi said fuming.

Honey I'm sorry but you should hear me out first. I....

Before she could complete that sentence, a thunderous slap kissed her left cheek and she passed out on the sofa.

Get my dinner ready, after that you will tell me why you switched off your phone.

He said as he walked towards the bedroom.
When he noticed there was no response from his wife, he was infuriated.

He rushed towards her to unleash the rest of the demon in him but on getting close to her, he discovered she has passed out.

He was shocked. Cold sweat appeared on his forehead and raced down his temple.

Fear gripped him.
He began to panic.
#taghardtruth

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When I was dating my wife, I visited her house to see her one time.

It was late at night.

It was one of those few times I would visit and meet her father at home. This time he was home and seated at the balcony. I went over to sit with him and we got talking.

He asked me why I had come so late.

"Are you the kind of man that keeps late nights?" He asked.

I stuttered.

"No no no, sir. I don't. As a matter of fact, I was home all through today?"

"Why? You lost your Job?"

"No sir. Today I am off duty. I just came to see her."

"You mean you drove all the way from your house to see her by this time?"

I chuckled and cleaned sweat from my face.

"Yes, daddy. I missed her and she requested I come see her and say goodnight to her physically before I go to bed."

He laughed.

"So what happened to the phone call goodnight. Is she tired of that? Why does she want a physical goodnight."

"Daddy I don't know o."

"Okay. So have you said goodnight to her?"

"She is helping Mama in the kitchen. She asked me to wait for some time."

"Okay, she wants to give you my food for dinner. So she is asking you to wait got it to dorn ehn?"

I laughed.

"No sir. I think mummy engaged her."

"You people have not said the truth. You have not told me the reason you came to my house by 9pm to just say goodnight to my daughter."

"Sir that is the reason. True. I won't lie."

He nodded his head and said okay.

We talked about other things and while still talking my wife emerged from the kitchen cleaning hands.

She asked me to stand so she could walk me to the car.

Her father looked at her.

"So you had to suffer a young man, to drive all the way to your house to say goodnight physically to you. Won't you consider fuel? Fuel is expensive these days."

My wife chuckled.

"Daddy... It's a punishment. He knows what he did."

I said goodnight to her father and went to the kitchen to say goodnight to her mother.

When we went out we stood in a dark spot, where I had parked my car.

My wife told me that she invited me because she just wanted to kiss me physically before going to bed.

I smiled.

The moment I pulled her close to kiss her, the father cleared his throat. He was just standing behind us.

"So this is the special goodnight. You want to kiss my daughter's lips eh? Have you paid?"

I was scared.

He told his daughter to go back inside and walked to me.

"Praises, when you pay, the lips will be yours. For now, all you get is a hug."

I nodded my head, thanked him, entered my car, and drove off.

On our wedding day in church, he was there. The moment the Pastor told me to kiss the bride.

I raised her veil and turned and looked at the father.

The man was looking at me.

I was looking at him.

We both knew why we were looking at each other.

I turned to his daughter and grabbed her close to me.

Me and my wife that day spent over 4 minutes kissing. The church had to stand up to clap.

After service, the father met me outside and said to me.

"You think you can pepper me, shey. You kissed my daughter to pepper me."

I laughed.

He laughed too.

#taghardtruth

* I asked her to give me her number since June last year and she said. .she will be giving me one “1” digit each month to see how patients I am, and to prove that I'm serious about my feelings for her. After eleven "11” month she finally gave me the last digit been yesterday

*Today she asked me to send 6k to refill her Gas and I am thinking of sending her 100 Naira each month until it reaches 6k.
I want to test her patience for money ,is it a bad ideas my good people.. ?

𝗕𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗵𝗼𝗼𝗱, 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗮𝘆...?

Men, listen up

Just because a woman did you wrong doesn’t mean you should slow down on your grind. Respect your last name. If she thinks she’s bigger than the life you’ve built—or the life you’re building—then let her go.

If she’s comfortable talking to you crazy, then stop talking to her. Respect your last name. If she really thinks she can treat you like a joke, then walk away. Respect your last name.

If she keeps taking your kindness for weakness, show her just how strong you are—by leaving. Respect your last name. If she keeps threatening to leave, don’t sit there begging her to stay. Respect your last name.

If she doesn’t take you seriously enough to respect your boundaries, then leave. Respect your last name. If she actually believes she can find better, don’t get sad about it. Let her try—and you go get every single thing you want out of this life.

Always remember: you can lose money chasing women, but you’ll never lose women chasing money.

"THE DAY I ENTERED THE BLESSER LIFE… AND MET MY UNCLE NAKED!"

It all began on a random dusty Saturday in Kasarani. I was sitting outside my one-window bedsitter, drinking warm Fanta and scrolling through Instagram like someone with a purpose. My friends were living large — hotel breakfasts, fake accents, swimming pools with their legs hanging like fried sausages. Me? I was just there… drinking Fanta with no bubbles.

I said to myself, “I must join this soft life. Even if I die, let me die in style.”

So I called up my friend Shiko, the President of Slay Queens Association.

“Shiko, me I’m tired of poverty. Show me the way.”

She laughed like a hyena and replied, “Babe, say less. Blessers are waiting. Just be hot.”

I borrowed high heels that were taller than my future, a tight dress that needed lotion just to enter, and a wig that had seen more heads than a boda boda helmet. But I was READY. Soft life was calling me like M-Pesa ringtone.

THE ARRIVAL

We entered this flashy apartment in Kileleshwa. The place smelled like old money, cigar smoke, and betrayal. Five blessers were sitting like sugar-coated crocodiles. One had a chain so big, it looked like a bicycle lock. Another was rubbing his belly like he just ate someone's rent.

And then... introductions began. They were choosing girls like avocados at Gikomba.

“Let this one come with me.”

“No, I want that one. The one with the confused eyelashes.”

I was just praying not to get the one with two teeth. But fate, oh fate...

"You," one deep voice said. "You, Candy, come with me."

Shiko pushed me forward. “Go, that’s Big Daddy Mkubwa. He’s very generous.”

Ah! Generous is good, right? I walked like a borrowed goat towards the room. My heart was beating like drums in a Luo funeral.

THE MOMENT OF MADNESS

I opened the bedroom door...

And my eyes almost jumped out.

THERE. ON THE BED.

NAKED.

LEGS CROSSED.

SMILING.

Was my UNCLE.

UNCLE MURIUKI.

From Kangema.

The one who paid my high school fees.

The one who always said, “Respect yourself, Wanjiku.”

Now he was there, in full HD. No socks. No shame. Just flesh.

We locked eyes. I screamed. He screamed. Even the AC made a noise.

“WANJIKU??” he shouted.

“UNCLE??” I shouted.

“WHY ARE YOU HERE??”

“NO, WHY ARE YOU HERE??”

I tried to close the door with my elbow. My wig fell off and hit him in the chest. He screamed again, “Satan! Is this a curse?!”

I turned to run — but my high heel snapped. I flew like a chicken kicked by a donkey. Boom! I hit the flower vase. Glass everywhere. My fake eyelashes stuck to the curtain. I was breathing like I had climbed Mount Kenya.

Shiko came running, “What happened?”

I pointed back at the door, crying, “That’s my UNCLE! My mother’s brother! I saw his... his... ancestral stick!!”

THE ESCAPE

I didn’t even wait. I grabbed my handbag, which was actually a plastic bag from Naivas, and I ran out barefoot. The guard asked, “Madam, where are you going?”

I shouted, “TO THE VILLAGE!! I’M GOING TO BE A FARMER NOW!!”

AFTER THAT DAY...

Uncle Muriuki no longer comes for family gatherings. I no longer say "bless me" in prayer. And any time someone calls me “Candy,” I throw my shoe.

That was the day I learned: not every soft life is for you. Some roads lead to money, others lead to madness, trauma, and a naked uncle.

Daniel Bwala, an aide to President Bola Tinubu has said that almost all the members of opposition parties will be joining the All Progressives Congress (APC) in due time.

The presidential aide expressed his joy over the defection of the Delta State Governor, Sheriff Oborevwori and his predecessor, Ifeanyi Okowa from the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) to the APC.

According to Bwala, a former presidential candidate in the 2023 election would also join the APC.

His words, “Delta in the bag, almost all opposition members are coming, including a former vice presidential candidate in the 2023 election.”

Bwala also described the coalition championed by Atiku Abubakar and Nasir El-Rufai as a “coalition of confusing confusion”.

He noted that there are only two political parties in Nigeria.

He said, “Coalition of confusing confusion; Una never see anything yet. A former presidential candidate in the 2023 presidential election is warming up as well.

“There are only two political parties in Nigeria; APC and others,” he wrote on X.

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