I just discovered something very surprising today.

There’s a tribe in Ethiopia called the Hamar people, and their tradition shocked me.

According to their culture, When a young boy is about to become a man, he has to go through a ceremony called bull jumping. And yes, it means exactly what it sounds like...he has to run naked across the backs of several cows lined up in a row. If he falls, then that is considered a big embarrassment.

But that’s not even the most shocking part.

Before this ceremony, the women in his family allow themselves to be flogged willingly. They stand there and take real lashes from men who have already been initiated. And they don’t complain. In fact, they feel proud of the scars.

Why? Because it’s their way of showing love and support to the young man. And the scar is like a contract...whenever that woman needs help in the future, the man must answer her. No questions asked.

I read this and paused for a moment. I imagined asking my sisters, “Would you allow yourself to be whipped for me?” I’m very sure they would say, “Why not you for us?”

Traditions like this are hard to believe but deeply meaningful in their culture.

Now I’m curious....would you go through pain to support someone you love?

Are you still proud of your country?

Meet the most feared women in African history – The Dahomey Amazons. Known as the Mino warriors, this fierce all-female military squad from the kingdom of Dahomey, West Africa (modern-day Benin), operated from the 17th to 19th centuries. The Mino, nicknamed the Dahomey Amazons by Europeans, were initially elephant hunters who evolved into a formidable military force. These warriors, also called N’Nonmiton or "Our Mothers," were revered for their unmatched combat skills and loyalty to the kingdom.

Recruited as young as 8 years old, many Mino sought escape from poverty or oppress!ve marriages. They took vows of celibacy to stay focused on their duties. The Mino's rigorous training included survival expeditions and mastering combat techniques. With the motto "Conquer or D!e," they dominated the battlefield and held significant roles in the kingdom’s Grand Council.

Armed with Winchester rifles, clubs, and kn!ves, the Mino were a force to be reckoned with. By the mid-19th century, they numbered between 1,000 and 6,000, making up a third of Dahomey’s army. The kingdom eventually fell to French colonization, and the Mino were disbanded, but their legacy of courage and empowerment endures

Men, listen up

Just because a woman did you wrong doesn’t mean you should slow down on your grind. Respect your last name. If she thinks she’s bigger than the life you’ve built—or the life you’re building—then let her go.

If she’s comfortable talking to you crazy, then stop talking to her. Respect your last name. If she really thinks she can treat you like a joke, then walk away. Respect your last name.

If she keeps taking your kindness for weakness, show her just how strong you are—by leaving. Respect your last name. If she keeps threatening to leave, don’t sit there begging her to stay. Respect your last name.

If she doesn’t take you seriously enough to respect your boundaries, then leave. Respect your last name. If she actually believes she can find better, don’t get sad about it. Let her try—and you go get every single thing you want out of this life.

Always remember: you can lose money chasing women, but you’ll never lose women chasing money.

S€X AND SUCCESS DON’T MIX – WHY UNDISCIPLINED MEN NEVER BECOME GREAT

Some men dream of success.
Some men work for success.
Some men destroy their success before it even starts.

And guess what? For many men, the biggest distraction is S€X.

A man who chases pleasure over purpose will always be left behind.
A man who controls his desires will always be ahead.

Success requires discipline.
Sexual indulgence destroys discipline.

If you can’t control your lust, you will never control your future.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. POWERFUL MEN AVOID S€XUAL DISTRACTIONS, WEAK MEN CAN’T SAY NO

Every great man in history had one thing in common: They had discipline.

Alexander the Great conquered the world by 30—he didn’t waste time chasing women.
Elon Musk works 100 hours a week—he doesn’t waste time texting girls.

Muhammad Ali refused s€x before fights—he knew discipline was power.
But look at many men today:

Wasting hours daily on p0rn and m@sturbation.
Spending their last money just to impress women.

Crying over a girl instead of building their future.
No great man was ever a slave to lust.

2. S£X DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS, AND DRIVE

Every time you release, you are losing more than just a few seconds of pleasure.
You are losing:
Testosterone (your natural energy for success).

Motivation (your hunger to win).
Mental clarity (your ability to stay focused).
That’s why after s£x, many men feel weak and lazy.

Now imagine:
Doing this every day.
Wasting hours texting, chasing, and begging women.
Spending money just to get a few minutes of pleasure.
That’s why broke men chase s£x, and rich men chase success.

3. EVERY MINUTE SPENT CHASING WOMEN IS A MINUTE LOST BUILDING YOUR FUTURE

Look at your daily habits.
How much time do you spend scrolling through women’s pictures?
How much time do you waste flirting and simping in DMs?

How much time do you spend watching p0rn and draining your strength?
Now imagine using that time to:
Learn a high-income skill.
Work on your business or career.

Go to the gym and improve your body.
If you focused on building, you wouldn’t need to chase—women would come to you.

4. HISTORY PROVES THAT S£XUAL WEAKNESS DESTROYS GREAT MEN

Ask yourself: What destroyed the strongest men in history?
Not war. Not enemies. Not poverty.
It was s£xual weakness.
Samson lost his power because of Delilah.

King Solomon was the wisest man, but women led him to destruction.

Tiger Woods lost millions in endorsements due to a s£x scandal.

Bill Clinton’s career was almost ruined by a woman.

A man without discipline is a man waiting for destruction.

5. WOMEN DON’T RESPECT MEN WHO CAN’T CONTROL THEMSELVES

You think a woman respects a man who chases her all day?
You think she values a man who is always available and begging?

No.
A woman respects men who have:
Purpose.
Self-control.
A bigger mission in life.

When you focus on your purpose, women will focus on you.

6. P0RN, M@STURBATION & CASUAL S£X ARE MAKING MEN WEAKER

The modern man is weak, lazy, and broke because he is addicted to cheap pleasure.

P0rn kills your brain.
M@sturbation destroys your energy.
Casual s£x makes you indisciplined.
That’s why so many men are:

Unmotivated.
Struggling financially.
Depressed and directionless.

If you want to be great, you must cut off s£xual distractions.

7. A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS URGES CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY

You say you want to be rich, powerful, and successful.
But you can’t even:
Go a week without s£x or p0rn.

Focus on work without being distracted by women.
Stop simping and chasing after every woman you see.
If you can’t master your own body, how can you master the world?

8. SUCCESSFUL MEN CONTROL S£X, BROKE MEN ARE CONTROLLED BY S€X

S€x is a tool.
The weak use it for pleasure.
The strong use it for power.

A successful man controls when and how he engages in s€x.
A broke man lets s€x control him.
That’s why the world is run by disciplined men, not by men who chase pleasure.

9. WOMEN COME AND GO, BUT SUCCESS STAYS

A man can have 100 women today, and they can all leave tomorrow.
But if you have money, power, and status, even more women will come.

That’s why powerful men never lack women.
And that’s why weak men are always chasing.

10. DISCIPLINE FIRST, PLEASURE LATER

There is nothing wrong with s£x.

But if you put pleasure before purpose, you will always struggle.
If you master self-control, you will always be ahead.

The choice is yours.

BOTTOM LINE:

If you want to be great, wealthy, and powerful, learn to control your lust.

Because in the end…

Men who control their desires, control their future.
Men who chase pleasure, lose everything.

WHAT WOMEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT MEN...✍🏾

1. Men don't read minds. If you want him to know you and what's on your mind, tell him.

2. A man loves it when his woman brags about him.

3. A man hates it when things he shares with his woman are told to her girlfriends as juicy gossip.

4. The number one thing a man finds sexy is her heart, the man serious about love might look at a woman with a gorgeous body but he only chases after and keeps the one with a good heart.

5. Men don't think about sex all the time. It means alot to him to have a woman he can talk to deep and intelligent stuff. His need for sexual stimulation is high and scattered, but his need for mental stimulation is constant.

6. The easiest way to keep him from spending too much time with his friends at the expense of you, is to make sure being with you is more fun, more intelligently stimulating, more stress-free than being with his friends.

7. Every good man loves his woman more than his friends, but if he spends more time with his friends it's to escape the stress he gets when with her.

8. The more you nag, the more he will avoid you.

9. Men want to express their feelings, but will only do so when they feel safe. How much he lets you be there for him depends on how much he thinks you can handle his issues.

10. Don't fight his favourite past time, embrace it. If he loves football, watch matches with him or buy him a jersey. If he loves to swim, swim with him or just check him out as you chill by the pool. If he loves to dance, dance with him even if you are not a pro. The more you do things with him, the more he will value your company, the more he will in return learn to like or accommodate what you like.

11. No matter what happens in your marriage, make sure your sex-life doesn't suffer. Don't ever use sex as a weapon to attack him or punish him.

12. If he truly loves you, he will still find you sexy whether you gain or lose weight. The thing is always know how to dress and look sexy no matter your size; men can pick up a woman's confidence.

13. When you give birth, don't focus too much on being a great mother that you forget to remain a great wife.

14. Men also love to be listened to. Be his confidant. Find out how he is, how his day has been. He has feelings too. Let it not always be about you.

15. Don't jump into conclusions quickly when you hear rumors about him or think he is cheating or fooling around. Confront him gently with love, it will make him respect you more. He should never feel you are quick to leave his team, be rational.

16. Know that good men are constantly being bashed by society because of what the bad ones have done and are doing. Look at him as an individual, celebrate him

17. The more you appreciate his efforts, the more he will do for you.

18. Don't let your hurry to get married put him off. Don't rush love.

19. A man and a woman may not grow ready at the same pace. Don't force a marriage proposal out of him, if he loves you and is serious, be sure he is planning the proposal. The more comfortable you make him, the easier you make it for him; the more you rush him, the more he starts to feel used.

20. A man will always be publicly proud of the woman he admires, be admirable.

21. The number one cause for a man to feel less important and threatened in a woman's life is when he has little money or he can't adequately provide. This is one of most crucial moments when he needs his woman to affirm him that she still loves him and the two will find a way.

22. It's not that men are intimidated by women with power and success it's just that they detest the pride of some of these women with power and success. You wouldn't want to be with a proud man so full of himself just because he has lots of money and success; neither do the men want to be with such a woman.

23. Never praise another man yet belittle your man. A man will not hesitate to walk away from a woman who sees him as nothing.

24. When an issue has been resolved between you and your man, move past it. It is retrogressive to dig up resolved fights to prove how right you are and how wrong he is.

25. Patience with a man will take you far. Many women miss out on the growth with a man because they want perfect right now.

26. Submitting to a man doesn't mean you are his slave, it just means giving him the authority to build with you, to nourish you, to look out for you and be concerned about your well being.

WHY MODERN MARRIAGES ARE COLLAPSING:

Why are men refusing to get married these days?

Why are so many women who have it all do not have husbands even in their 40s?

These are not accidents.

These are as a result of REBELLION.

When women abandon their feminine nature, they abandon the very thing that makes marriage attractive.

Modern women are taught to act like men, compete with men, be equal to men and fight men.

Now, women are confused as to why men no longer want to marry them.

Men can't lead or protect women who see them as opponents and competitors.

Men are not afraid of marriage. They are worried about fighting their rebellious wives in their own homes every day.

Marriage is no longer seen as an act of love but as business by most women.

If you make millions of cash, buy me cars and solves all my financial worries before I can be submissive to a man; then that's not submission but extortion!!!

Submission is not earned. Submission is chosen. You choose to be submissive or not to be submissive.

If a woman wants to get everything from a man before respecting him, then that's stupid because no man can give you everything you want.

You can't have the benefits of marriage without the responsibilities. The responsibilities are submission, service, sacrifice and loyalty.

You can't build a home where one partner is committed while the other is entitled.

You can't see submission as slavery and expect a happy marriage.

Submission becomes her enemy and no man marries an enemy.

You can't build a future with a woman who hates orderliness.

A man's marriage is the most expensive investment he will ever make. So, he wants to be sure he is investing rightly.

Marriage with a rebellious woman is suicidal. No matter how much you put into it, it's destined to collapse.

Modern men would prefer to die in peace alone than to stay with rebellious wives.

Women claim to be proudly independent until it's time to pay the bills alone, raise the kids alone or die alone.

Their funerals are filled with regrets.

God did not design women to live and die alone. Independence was never the goal.

Women are fighting for relevance and no man fights for relevance in his own home.

In today's dating markets, too many women are not looking for love. They are looking for financial saviours.

Men have come to realise all these and that's why they are not getting married as they used to.