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WHAT WOMEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT MEN...✍🏾

1. Men don't read minds. If you want him to know you and what's on your mind, tell him.

2. A man loves it when his woman brags about him.

3. A man hates it when things he shares with his woman are told to her girlfriends as juicy gossip.

4. The number one thing a man finds sexy is her heart, the man serious about love might look at a woman with a gorgeous body but he only chases after and keeps the one with a good heart.

5. Men don't think about sex all the time. It means alot to him to have a woman he can talk to deep and intelligent stuff. His need for sexual stimulation is high and scattered, but his need for mental stimulation is constant.

6. The easiest way to keep him from spending too much time with his friends at the expense of you, is to make sure being with you is more fun, more intelligently stimulating, more stress-free than being with his friends.

7. Every good man loves his woman more than his friends, but if he spends more time with his friends it's to escape the stress he gets when with her.

8. The more you nag, the more he will avoid you.

9. Men want to express their feelings, but will only do so when they feel safe. How much he lets you be there for him depends on how much he thinks you can handle his issues.

10. Don't fight his favourite past time, embrace it. If he loves football, watch matches with him or buy him a jersey. If he loves to swim, swim with him or just check him out as you chill by the pool. If he loves to dance, dance with him even if you are not a pro. The more you do things with him, the more he will value your company, the more he will in return learn to like or accommodate what you like.

11. No matter what happens in your marriage, make sure your sex-life doesn't suffer. Don't ever use sex as a weapon to attack him or punish him.

12. If he truly loves you, he will still find you sexy whether you gain or lose weight. The thing is always know how to dress and look sexy no matter your size; men can pick up a woman's confidence.

13. When you give birth, don't focus too much on being a great mother that you forget to remain a great wife.

14. Men also love to be listened to. Be his confidant. Find out how he is, how his day has been. He has feelings too. Let it not always be about you.

15. Don't jump into conclusions quickly when you hear rumors about him or think he is cheating or fooling around. Confront him gently with love, it will make him respect you more. He should never feel you are quick to leave his team, be rational.

16. Know that good men are constantly being bashed by society because of what the bad ones have done and are doing. Look at him as an individual, celebrate him

17. The more you appreciate his efforts, the more he will do for you.

18. Don't let your hurry to get married put him off. Don't rush love.

19. A man and a woman may not grow ready at the same pace. Don't force a marriage proposal out of him, if he loves you and is serious, be sure he is planning the proposal. The more comfortable you make him, the easier you make it for him; the more you rush him, the more he starts to feel used.

20. A man will always be publicly proud of the woman he admires, be admirable.

21. The number one cause for a man to feel less important and threatened in a woman's life is when he has little money or he can't adequately provide. This is one of most crucial moments when he needs his woman to affirm him that she still loves him and the two will find a way.

22. It's not that men are intimidated by women with power and success it's just that they detest the pride of some of these women with power and success. You wouldn't want to be with a proud man so full of himself just because he has lots of money and success; neither do the men want to be with such a woman.

23. Never praise another man yet belittle your man. A man will not hesitate to walk away from a woman who sees him as nothing.

24. When an issue has been resolved between you and your man, move past it. It is retrogressive to dig up resolved fights to prove how right you are and how wrong he is.

25. Patience with a man will take you far. Many women miss out on the growth with a man because they want perfect right now.

26. Submitting to a man doesn't mean you are his slave, it just means giving him the authority to build with you, to nourish you, to look out for you and be concerned about your well being.

Title: The Clever Spider and the Rainmaker’s Secret

In a time when animals ruled the forest and talked like men, there lived a cunning spider named Kwaku Ananse. Though small in size, Ananse had a mind sharper than a porcupine’s quill. The forest was in trouble—a terrible drought had turned rivers to dust and crops to ash. The animals grew weak, and the young ones cried for water.

Now, it was said that only one creature held the secret to bring rain: Mzee Mbura, the old tortoise who lived atop the tallest baobab. He was a rainmaker, but he never shared. His crops flourished while others wilted. His shell stayed glossy while the other animals grew thin and cracked.

Ananse decided it was time to act—not with strength, but with wit.

He spun a long silky thread and tied gourds to it—one for kindness, one for courage, one for wisdom, and one for lies. He painted them with bright forest colors and carried them like gifts.

When he reached the baobab, Mzee Mbura was asleep. Ananse sang softly:

“Four gifts I bring,
For a shell so wide.
But only truth
Will open your pride.”

The tortoise opened one eye and chuckled. “What do you want, little web-walker?”

“Just a drop of rain,” Ananse said, bowing.

Mzee Mbura laughed. “Only the wise can summon rain.”

Ananse smiled. “Then let me try.”

He offered the gourd of lies first—but it broke into smoke. Then he offered the gourd of courage—but a wind blew it away. When he gave the gourd of kindness, it opened into a soft breeze. But the final gourd—wisdom—burst into a thundercloud.

Suddenly, the sky wept.

Rain fell. The trees danced. The animals cheered.

Mzee Mbura was shocked. “How did you do that?”

Ananse bowed low. “Sometimes, the smallest voice carries the biggest truth. Kindness and wisdom can open even the sky.”

From that day, the animals honored Ananse not just as a trickster—but as the Savior of the Rain.

Moral: Wisdom is not in how loud you speak, but in how true your heart is.

Title: The Drumbeat of the Ant

In the golden heart of the African savanna, where the winds hummed songs of old and the sun kissed every grain of earth, a great celebration was being planned. The Lion King had declared a grand festival to unite all animals in joy and peace. There would be dancing, music, storytelling, and a mighty drum that would beat across the plains.

Every animal brought something.

The elephant brought palm wine in a gourd the size of a boulder.
The peacock brought feathers that shimmered like the morning sun.
The zebra painted paths with his striped tail.
The hyena—even he—brought laughter.

But the little black ant, Tano, had nothing grand to give. He was so small, many didn’t even notice he was there.

“I’ll carry something for someone,” he whispered to himself.

So he helped the dung beetle push his ball. He climbed the giraffe’s neck to untangle a leaf stuck in her eye. He fixed the tear in the tortoise’s shell with a single drop of sap.

And on the day of the festival, the great drum carved from sacred iroko wood stood silent. The elephant had forgotten the drummer.

“Who will play?” the animals cried. “Who knows the rhythm of the land?”

“I will,” said a tiny voice.

It was Tano, standing on a dry stick, holding a seedpod.

The animals laughed—until he began to tap.

Tap. Tap. Tap.
His rhythm echoed the heartbeat of the earth.
Tap. Tap. Tap.
The trees swayed. The birds joined in. Even the sky seemed to nod along.

The festival roared to life. Tano’s beat guided the dance of the lion, the grace of the gazelle, the sway of the snake.

When the sun set and the stars blinked awake, the Lion King stood and bowed.

“Today,” he said, “a small ant taught us the biggest lesson: It is not the size of your gift, but the heart with which it’s given.”

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Moral Lessons:
1. No contribution is too small when done with love.
2. Greatness isn’t about size—it’s about impact.
3. Every voice matters, even the quietest one.